Adopted Part One
I am adopted. I've always known. I don't remember my parents ever telling me, it was just something that was always talked about....how my family came to be. They adopted my brother, then three years later Wendy was adopted. She tragically died of SIDS and then they adopted me. I grew up being told that my birth mother was very young and loved me so much that she wanted me to have a better life. I grew up knowing that her giving me up was an act of love and sacrifice and that I was in the family that I was meant to be a part of. I never felt like this wasn't my real family. It always offended me when people would imply our family was not real because we did not share DNA. Growing up I'd sometimes meet women who I really clicked with who were around what I thought her age was and sometimes I'd fantasize they were my birth mother. I was always curious but also reluctant to search for her. I carried papers around from the adoption agency for 10 years that I coul